Cognition and learning

How you can help your child with their thinking and learning.

What you might observe about the child

  • Little involvement and low levels of concentration.
  • Gives up easily.
  • Little motivation, enjoyment or sense of achievement.
  • Unable to express or explore their own ideas and thinking.
  • Cannot make links, for example between experiences at home and nursery.
  • Rigidity in play and does not choose how they would like to do things.

What can adults do?

  • Show a playful attitude and sense of fun when playing with children.
  • Play alongside the child copying what the child does.
  • Model possible ways to develop the play (for example, the child holds a doll, adult holds another doll picks up a spoon and pretends to feed it).
  • Use reassuring facial expressions, body language, gestures and signs to encourage effort, no matter how small.
  • Provide a simple play story using key words only, for example, 'Teddy jumps'.
  • Use specific, meaningful praise when a child persists at or achieves something new.
  • Verbal and visual encouragement.
  • Try using photos, symbols, choice boards or ‘now and next’ boards to suggest and support play sequences or routines. Find out more from BBC’s Tiny Happy People.
  • Use specific motivators - learn what the child really responds well to (often food) and include it in play situations.
  • Model the use of simple statements such as 'I wonder' or 'what if' rather than asking questions.
  • Be patient with repetitive play as some children need to over-learn before being able to move on.
  • When appropriate, always offer a choice (for example, between bubbles or glitter in a water tray) even if you know that they will always choose the glitter.
  • Ensure the child sees other children playing in different ways.
  • Find out more about supporting your child’s play and development at BBC’s Tiny Happy People.

More information

If you would like to learn more about this topic, or if you are a professional working in early years, you can find information on Tools for Schools: Cognition and learning.