Your questions answered

Find answers to some of the most common questions about adoption.

Questions and answers

What are the legalities of adoption?

Adoptive parents - through a legal process - take on the full parental responsibility for the child, and a life-long commitment to change their life for the better.

This is the key difference between adoption over fostering and Special Guardianship Orders.

If you have full legal responsibility for an adopted child it means that the child is also recognised as having the same rights as a birth child within their adopted family.

What's the difference between adoption and special guardianship?

With adoption, full parental responsibility is transferred to the adoptive parents.

Special guardianship provides parental responsibility for the child, but unlike an adoption order, the child still has a legal link to their parents.

What is the process for adopting a stepchild?

You apply to adopt a stepchild as a sole applicant.

Please see our dedicated page, Adopt a stepchild, to find out more about the process of adopting a stepchild.

Is there any contact with birth parents after adoption?

It is not unusual for there to be an exchange of written information between birth parents and adoptive parents, often on an annual basis, using the adoption team as an intermediary.

This may also include grandparents and other significant people from the child's birth family. 

The particular circumstances of the child may also make it important for that child to have direct contact with birth family members.

Should a child be told that they are adopted?

The simple answer is yes - children should be aware that they are adopted.

From the outset, adoptive parents should provide appropriate knowledge to the child so they are aware of their past, circumstances and heritage.

Can I help if my child has/is going to be adopted

Our Adoption Support Service provides the following for birth family members where their children have been adopted:

  • Independent advice on all matters relating to adoption
  • Support groups
  • Advice on, and negotiation of, contact arrangements, including postal contact
  • Advice on tracing family members placed for adoption, including mediation
  • Management of face-to-face contact with adoptive family members.

What happens when the child first moves in?

The child will begin living with you after an approved matching and linking process. However, the child is not legally recognised as a member of your family until an Adoption Order has been made.

Over a period of around eight weeks, the child and adoptive parent/s will have several reviews to find out how everyone feels about the proposed adoption.

During this time you will also receive regular visits from your adoption social worker and the child's social worker. It is their statutory responsibility to visit the child, and they will assist and support you in helping the child settle into the family.

After a minimum of 10 weeks, and if the proposed adoption is considered successful by all parties, a review will take place to confirm the findings. Once approved, an application will be made to the court for an Adoption Order.

Once the court has approved the Adoption Order, the child is legally recognised as a member of the adoptive parents' family, and given all rights as if they were their birth child. Ongoing support for the adoptive parents and adopted child is also available.

Last updated:
15 January 2020
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